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Hi baby girl! Were you ...

Hi baby girl! Were you up late again tonight watching the phillies? I bet you were. I know you are helping them win because they keep saying it is Red October and I know you would love that!

Ashley and I held your picture from school tonight. She gave you a kiss and so did I. She misses you but she is doing a lot of talking about you so I think that helps her. Mommy cried a lot Thursday and Friday but Ashley was with Daddy most of the time. Sometimes I am surprised by how much my heart actually hurts. Thanks for giving me the strength to do better the last two days.

We got pumpkins on Saturday! Ashley and I carved a silly face on your pumpkin cause we knew that is what you would like best. Ash made a happy face on hers and that certainly made me happy! We also painted a small pumpkin for you, there was a rainbow, a heart, your name, and a handprint from Ash.

Keep helping us be strong sweetie, and help us to remember all the good times. Please don't let me forget anything! I am going to go watch your video again, I love the sound of your sweet little voice. I wish I could feel your hand on my face one last time.

Goodnight baby girl.
Mommy

P.S. I am going to add some photos of Ash doing her pumpkins. Art therapy is a wonderful thing!

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The Bollinger / Monday, November 3 2008 12:23 PM

The bible and heart are beautiful. What a beautiful way to remember Ally by planting a tree. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Olivia / Monday, November 3 2008 01:50 AM

Just wanted to let you all know that my thoughts and prayers are with you every day. I can't imagine your struggle, stay strong Ally will help you.

The Bollingers / Sunday, November 2 2008 02:30 AM

Just checking in to see how you are doing? We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Michelle Kelly / Sunday, November 2 2008 12:31 AM

Was thinking of you and the girls today. Wanted you to know... Michelle Kelly

steph / Saturday, November 1 2008 06:23 PM

thinking of you and your family everyday

D.Stinnard / Tuesday, October 28 2008 11:26 PM

It was so nice to see Ashley smile and have fun carving pumpkins. It was nice to see her paint one for Ally. Keep strong and have faith. God is with you and your family.

Carol Yeager / Tuesday, October 28 2008 05:14 PM

It was so nice and comforting to see the pics of Ashley and the pumpkins,I am so glad that you have her and she has you and I know it doesnt fill the big empty feeling in your heart but she will help you and you will help her to go on with your lives because thats what Ally would want and just remember she can see whats going on down here and she would be so upset if you were just so unhappy all the time.Allways remember that when the sun shines she is up there playing and when the night falls she is watching down on you and Ashley so please for Ally just try your hardest to be as happy as you both can be, I know that is what she would want for the both of you.My prayers and thoughts are allways with you,GOD BLESS Your friend Carol,(sissypop52)

Lynne / Tuesday, October 28 2008 01:40 AM

I was reminded of this verse today...and wanted to share it with you. Thinking of you and missing Ally...Love, Lynne II Timothy 4:7,8 "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day—and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing."

holly / Monday, October 27 2008 03:38 PM

Ashley's pictures are so cute!Hang in there Jill,all my wishes.

Kim Burd / Monday, October 27 2008 03:01 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. I know it must be such a struggle to get through each day. Death is so unnatural for us. God originally purposed for us to live perfectly in a beautiful paradise earth without sickness or death. But because Adam and Eve sinned, we too have inherited sin and imperfection. (Romans 5:12) However, God still has a purpose for humans. Because God loves us so much, he sent his son Jesus Christ as a ransom sacrifice to cover for our sins. (John 3:16) It is through God's Kingdom that sickness and death will be done away with. (Matthew 6:9,10) We'll be able to live in that beautiful paradise without war and crime. We will even be reunited with our dead loved ones, as the Bible promises us they will be resurrected. (Acts 24:15) This hope for the future helps ones to cope through such difficult times. My sincere condolences go out to you. You are in my daily thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Kim Burd

Jodee Reid / Monday, October 27 2008 12:21 PM

Thinking of you all.

The Bollingers / Monday, October 27 2008 11:08 AM

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Yet another sleepless night Ally! ...

Yet another sleepless night Ally! Oh well by now I'm pretty much used to the lack of sleep. Thank you for taking care of Ashley this week. She seems so much happier now that she is back at school. She has also been asking a lot of questions and talking about how she feels so I know that helps. I know her questions help her to feel better but they make me so sad. She misses you and she feels like she is the only child without a sibling. Please keep helping mommy and daddy to take care of her the best we can.

Tomorrow Daddy and I are going to take her to get pumpkins. She asked if she can get you one, of course she can. I think she is going to paint it instead of carving it. She knows how you hated the texture of the inside of the pumpkin!

I was so upset with myself today, I know you wouldn't want me to sit around and be sad but it bothers me that I am able to function with life so normally. Maybe it is because I am so used to functioning in crisis mode but I think it is because I am numb and haven't allowed myself to feel the full impact of you being gone forever.

Last night I fell asleep watching your video, I love to hear your voice. I showed Daddy how to save your voice on his phone, now your his ringtone! It's so sweet. Of course I wish I had recorded more of your voice.

I love you baby girl!
Mommy

To everyone else, I am not sure if Shane or I have thanked everyone for all of your love prayers and support over the last week or so. We truly would not have made it through the week had it not been for all of the out pouring of sympathy. So whether you sent food or cards, said a prayer, gave a call, sent an email, made a donation to the Angel Ally Memorial Fund, or came to the services; THANK YOU!

I am going to try to get started on Thank you cards this week. If I miss anyone please don't be offended we appreciated everything everyone has done for us. Unfortunately I am not the most organized person so I have numerous thank you lists in numerous places so I am bound to miss someone.

Thank you again.
Jill

P.S. Speaking of the video I was talking about earlier here is the link to watch it!
http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=45058500
I will also add the link to the homepage where we have other links listed.
Thank You Zach Reinert @ WZAR internet TV for making this awesome video and for such a wonderful tribute to our Angel Ally!

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TheBollingers / Monday, October 27 2008 11:24 AM

Just watched the video and it is a beautiful tribute to Ally. OUr thougths and prayers are with you.

Carol Yeager / Friday, October 24 2008 11:45 PM

I think about your family and just how all of you are doing and aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaamyheart aches for you so very much prayres be with you allways and remember that your little angel is up there watching down on you and your family Peace and prayers be with all of you. GOD BLESS

Kristin Federico / Friday, October 24 2008 01:23 AM

I was so sorry to hear about Ally. She and my daughter, Grace, were in the same dance class at MIM. Grace would tell me on the walk to the car after dance that she "likes being silly" with Ally. It wasn't until I read an e-mail at work that I realized that Shane and I worked together at Vanguard and made the connection. I think of you and your family often and Grace remembers Ally in her prayes each night. Pleaes know that my family will remember your family in our prayers for a long time. We hope that Ashley is okay and that she knows how many people think of her and wish her lots of love.

shirley grosser / Thursday, October 23 2008 04:43 PM

I was so sad to hear about Ally. My thoughts are with your family. I'm so sorry I couldn't be there on Sat. but my thoughts were with you. Ally is always with you.You have some great memories.

Dawn Stinnard / Thursday, October 23 2008 01:35 AM

That's a ringtone specially made for dad. You'll see the signs in everyday things that remind you of her. Enjoy the pumpkin hunt, I bet Ashley picks the one just right for Ally and the biggest one for herself. It will be nice to hear what she paints on her pumpkin.

ANDREA MOYER / Wednesday, October 22 2008 05:55 PM

what a great video. Sorry I couldn't make it on Saturday. I was there in spirit though. Hang in there guys. She will always be with you.

Karen Owens / Wednesday, October 22 2008 12:17 PM

Jill -- You are amazing. You've raised an amazing family and I will forever model my care for Gavin after you. You have taught me so much! I have been constantly thinking of you this past week. Hang in there.

The Bollingers / Wednesday, October 22 2008 11:06 AM

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Some how we learn to function no matter what kind of crisis we are dealing with. You are a strong family and together you will be able to get through this. All the love and support you have is truly a blessing. Have fun picking out your pumpkins.

Good morning Ally,

Good morning Ally,

I woke up this morning, and something told me to turn on my cell phone. I did. You know how daddy doesn't like talking on the phone. It felt as if you were guiding my hands and fingers, I was led to an old saved text message with audio. The message was from August. When I clicked it I heard something I needed to hear! It was you! You said "Daddy I love You!" Ally I can't tell you how many times I have listened to it already!!! I really need to figure out how to save it and never lose that sound of your voice. Thank you Ally for guiding me to that message, it was buried in 300 old messages!!!

I feel so comforted knowing you are here with us, taking care of Ashley, Mommy, and Daddy! Please Ally continue to send me signs that you are ok, daddy really misses you!

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Lauren / Thursday, October 30 2008 03:22 AM

I'm very sorry for your loss. I have been checking updates on your site for a very long time after coming across it through links on Andrew McDonough's page. At the end of August, a virus wiped my computer of all my links and it's taken my until now to find my way back here. I was shocked and saddened to hear about Ally. I just wanted to comment and let you know you're all in my thoughts (and have been for the months I've been following your entries) and I wanted to send you something I saw emailed into Post Secret regarding audio messages on cell phones: "I work for a major cell phone carrier. About once a year we hear of a story where someone is desperately hanging on to a voicemail from a lost loved one. We will put a hard copy of a voicemail from a lost loved one in your hands if you ask. It could be the greeting on their phone or a message they left on yours. We want you to have those memories. Please ask." I don't know if it'd be possible for you to get a hardcopy of her message, but I thought I'd let you know it might be worth it to try. I'm praying for you often! Lauren

unibrower / Thursday, October 23 2008 04:23 AM

Ally's voice and love will always be with you all. Aunt Jeannie gave me one of her pictures-I thanked her. Praying for you all-She will never be forgotten-Take care

Stephani / Thursday, October 23 2008 03:14 AM

I cam across your page through Andrew McDonough's page. From looking at your photos and the tribute video it is clear Ally was a very special girl and that those who knew her should feel blessed to have been a part of such a special little girl's life. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

vickie tim/gordon / Thursday, October 23 2008 12:18 AM

keep listening and she will keep sending! look closely and you will find! "Calling all you Angels" Keep singing she will keep smiling & dancing. I tahnk-you for letting me gabber about how I am related to the Heintz's You really are special parents with a special angel waiting for you.

phil h / Wednesday, October 22 2008 12:34 PM

keep those memories of Ally alive and she'll always be in your heart. PEACE BE WITH YOU ALL

The Bollingers / Wednesday, October 22 2008 11:09 AM

How sweet to be able to hear Ally's voice. There was a reason why that message wasn't deleted. Ally will forever be part of your life and helping you through the days when you don't think you can function. She will always be with you.

holly / Wednesday, October 22 2008 02:54 AM

i'm thinking of you's so much and i see Ally in everything.take care.

Tara Hannahoe / Tuesday, October 21 2008 08:25 PM

Thinking of you guys and praying for you often.

C. Matlack / Tuesday, October 21 2008 02:15 PM

The services for Ally were so special, just like she was and always will be in all our hearts. We will be happily reminded of her when we see red balloons or anything in the color red! All of us will save the beautiful picture of you on the bowling alley. When we drive to Delaware or Pittsburg you will be the first one we think of, knowing they did everything they could to make you feel better. Beautiful child we will never forget you.

We hope you loved your ...

We hope you loved your balloons Ally. You should count them, it's good practice! Ashley had a lot of questions tonight when we put her to bed. She wanted to know if you were going to watch over her while she slept. She asked if you were nocturnal!!! Don't ask me where she came up with that! I told her you would stay up if that's what she wanted you to do. She said you would need lots of energy to play in the clouds tomorrow so you better go to sleep too!

So sweet dreams! We miss you, we love you baby girl.
Mommy

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The Willigmanns / Tuesday, October 21 2008 08:49 PM

We are truly sorry for the lose of your special little girl. Everyday your family is in our thoughts and prayers. Words can't come close to comforting you at this time but we do send our heart felt sympathy. I believe that Ally is looking down on your family and she will keep you in her arms. God Bless You

Landis family / Tuesday, October 21 2008 01:41 AM

We were so sad to hear of Ally's sudden passing last week. Our hearts go out to your family. Please know that even though the services have ended, there are many people who are continuing to hold your family up in prayer. May God bless you with an enduring sense of His comfort and peace. Your dear little girl is held in His loving arms. Ally has left her footprint in many people's lives, and all those who knew her will never be the same. Her legacy lives on. Thank you for sharing her life with all of us.

Mary / Monday, October 20 2008 11:59 PM

Though Ally's body died, her spirit live on in my heart,and in the hearts of many others.

Tracy Lambeth / Monday, October 20 2008 08:54 PM

Wow, look at all those beautiful red balloons. I bet Ally felt pretty darn special when she saw those coming her way in heaven. We continue saying our prayers for all of you for your loss. God bless -

Trisha / Monday, October 20 2008 02:51 PM

Jill, My heart aches for the pain you and your family must be experiencing. I'm thinking of you all. Heaven has a beautiful angel. The balloons were amazing. I know your strength means the world to my sister. (Julie Malone's sister)

unibrower / Monday, October 20 2008 03:00 AM

thinking of you all-so sorry I couldn't be there with you all but you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Please stay strong and keep in touch-Say hello to your families for us and send them our prayers-Love to all

Jim & Sonuia Brake / Sunday, October 19 2008 06:03 PM

We have kept up with your family for the last year since the McDonoughs put your website on theirs. We feel that we have known you with the updates you have sent. My daughter Janell, is here with her new baby from California, so I didn't get on the computer this week until Friday night. What a shock to see that Ally had died and gone to the Lord. The last I had read was that she was doing so good. You both remind me of the sad grief that my mother experienced in 1961 when my sister, Mary, 7 years old, died of a brain aneurysm. Because you have benefit of Caring Bridge, you have kept people abreast of the many ways children get sick and die. It also brings people whom you have never met closer to your family through prayer and love. We share your grief and sadness. It is so hard. Ally will always be remembered in a special way, especially in your family for her bravery and smiles. Things will happen each day that will bring her to mind. There will be in time, a smile that will pass your face and stay there. The remembering will be so sweet. I can say that with much confidence because the Lord will heal your broken heart. Keep her name and spirit up most in your family each day. Someday, perhaps someone will name their child after Ally. It happened in my family. My granddaughter, 4, is named Mary. May God continue to bless you as you will be His spokespersons for others who are hurting.

Carol Yeager / Sunday, October 19 2008 04:02 PM

To Ashley,Jill,andShane, I send all my sincere sympathies to all of you and hope that you shall find some comfort in knowing just how many of us here online care for all of you and will allways and forever remember your little girl,I know that she is in Heaven with the LORD and he is watching over her ,I also believe that she is up there looking down and saying to her MOMMY and DADDY and SISTER "PLEASE BE HAPPY AND JUST KNOW THAT I CAN SEE YOU ALL AND I DONT WANT YOU TO CRY OR FEEL SAD BUT PLEASE FEEL JOY AND LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER and know that I am in no pain and I am not feeling sick or weak but that I am running and playing with all my friends here that prepared a place for me and Ashley must be strong and take care of my mommy and daddy so that they dont feel too sad about me leaving ,allways remember that my love for you all will go on forever and allways Carol and STERLEY, GOD BLESS

steph / Sunday, October 19 2008 03:33 PM

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during these oh so hard days. I know that you know you have tons of support... dont be afraid to use it. Our prayers are with ashley that she can work though this as well.

The Bollingers / Sunday, October 19 2008 03:29 PM

Many thoughts and prayers are with you. Our 1st grade sunday school class said a special prayer for Ally and your family. God Bless.

Jessica Larramore / Sunday, October 19 2008 02:00 PM

Jill, Shane and Ashley - I just wanted you all to know that I am thinking about you. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I think about Ally all the time in my work with the kids here in Buffalo. She is always an inspiration and fighter till the end. She will be dearly missed.

Hi sweetie, the last couple ...

Hi sweetie, the last couple of days have been long and very busy. Its good though it has kept your Daddy and I busy. I'm worried about tomorrow well technically today but I am still hoping to get some sleep. It will be nice to see everyone and for them to pay tribute to you but I know it will be difficult.

I got some special red things to wear. I know you will like them especially my shoes. Ashley and Daddy got some red things too. Be sure to let Ashley know how beautiful she looks. She misses you so much. She told me tonight that four years old is too young to go to heaven. It's breaking my heart to watch her please help Daddy and I take care of her and help guide us to do what is best for her.

I have to go now sweetie, I know I should try to get some sleep. I lay your blankies next to me when I sleep but, I guess you know that. They smell like you...I miss you. I love you baby girl!

Mommy

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jess / Saturday, November 1 2008 12:54 PM

i heard that ally has passed away a while ago but still even though you can not see her in person you can feel her still in your heart and she will always love and dream of u she is a real angel now and i bet everyone loves her in heven you will see her someday and i wish u the best RIP Ally

Kristen Allen / Sunday, October 19 2008 06:56 AM

Jill, Shane and Ashley I'm just writing to tell you that you are in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this terrible time. Kristen Allen

denille / Saturday, October 18 2008 08:00 PM

we are thinking of you during this hard time. all you have done for her she will always be with you rip ally the harps

Barb Bingener / Saturday, October 18 2008 06:48 AM

I know today and tomorrow will be such tough days. I hope the love and prayers you feel from your huge support team will provide a little comfort. Ally and your family have touched so many lives of people, both people you have met and others who have just heard of your journey. It is amazing how such a sweet little girl for a short time can affect so many people's lives. Jill, you have been an inspiration as a mother. Whenever I heard of how in the middle of the difficult stressful times you still made time for special outings for Ashley, it has impressed me and inspired me to be a better mother. Our daily thoughts and prayers continue for all of your family.

The Bollingers / Saturday, October 18 2008 01:53 AM

Thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Sarita Staines / Friday, October 17 2008 09:40 PM

there are no words that will make you feel anything but the sadness you have right now. Our prayers are with you and want you to know that people in WNY will be wearing Red for Ally tomorrow too. You are all in our prayers, and especially Ashley. Tell her she was the BEST BIG SISTER EVER! BE strong and courageous for one another, and the best way to honor Ally is ts LOVE ONE ANOTHER and hold onto the family that she lived for and depended on. BLessings of peace, comfort and strength for all of you.

mandee / Friday, October 17 2008 09:04 PM

ally.. i will never forget you and the incredible strength that you showed in just four short years. i will never forget the way you fought day after day with such a fierce determination to live. i'll never forget the way you touched my heart and showed me love. most of all, what i'll never forget is the radiant smile my mom would always get whenever your name was said. it's the most beautiful gift you ever could have given her and i thank you so much for that. i'll always think of you as family. i miss you and i love you baby girl. rest easy, beautiful. jill, ashley, shane.. i'm so sorry. my mom and i will be here for you for whatever you need. you're in my thoughts and prayers always. love, mandee

Wendy S. / Friday, October 17 2008 08:26 PM

Dear Jill, Shane and Ashley, I am crying as I am reading your updates. My heart aches for you and your family. May God give you peace as you go through these hard days ahead. Not peace as we know it but His peace that passes all understanding as you meet the challenges ahead of you. I will be praying for all of you!

The Bohn Family / Friday, October 17 2008 06:29 PM

You and your family are in out thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Always remember her dear little smile and all the wonderful memories you have. Hold them close in your heart.

Kylie Crampsie Seitz / Friday, October 17 2008 06:21 PM

Jill, I haven't seen you in ages probably since we lived in the apartment together at Northampton. I just wanted to tell you I am so sorry to hear about your little girl Ally. I have heard so many wonderful things about her. I know you were a terrific mother and my heart aches for you!! Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. My condolences are with you and your family. Take care.

Cydney Gilbertson / Friday, October 17 2008 06:19 PM

Shane, Jill, and Ashley, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. I have followed your journey through these updates and words cannot begin to express the sorrow I feel for you at this time. We won't be able to join you tomorrow, but you'll be in our thoughts and prayers --- and we'll be wearing something red in Ally's honor. She has taught us so much about life and faith in her four short years. May God give you strength during the coming days.

The Bollingers / Friday, October 17 2008 05:16 PM

Thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. You are not alone during this difficult time. Rest in Peace Ally.

Irene McKee / Friday, October 17 2008 12:45 PM

My most sincere condolences, although I never met you or precious Ally I fell that I know you. Ally was a light shining in this world. I know the pain is great and seems like it will never ease. I pray that Abba Father will send you healing and peace in this time, and beyond. When I was praying earlier He gave me this scripture, Isa: 51-11. Ally wears a crown in Glory and is smiling still. Ashley be strong and remember that you are loved by many. Abundant blessings, be happy. Abundant Blessings

Jessica / Friday, October 17 2008 12:14 PM

Jill and Family, I have had such a hard time finding something to write to you because I know that there nothing that I can say that can ease your grief and heartache. Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I know we did not know each other well, but I feel like we are connected in a special way because of our experiences at CHP. We were there together so often and Andrew and I loved seeing you and Ally walking around 7N (even though neither one of us wanted our little ones to be in the hospital again). She was such an amazing little girl and you and Shane are amazingly strong parents. I cannot even imagine the pain you are feeling but please know that you have all been and will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Jessica, Mike, and Andrew Morrissey

Valerie Pursel / Friday, October 17 2008 12:05 PM

I just wanted to let you all know I will be with you in spirit tonight and tomorrow. My thoughts are with you and I pray you have strength to get through this, the most horrible time in your lives. God has a plan for Ally. She will do great things from Heaven above. Just think you will be able to see her in all of God's beauty. When you see a gorgeous sunrise or rainbow, Ally will be there. She will be the colorful sunset, the refreshing summer rain, the pure white snow in the winter. Ally will be in everything that God makes. Embrace the wonderful memories you have of Ally it will help you through. God Bless you all. Even though I never met you or Ally, I feel like I know you. I have been following Ally's journey through her short but profound life. Try to have strength and peace knowing that Ally is no longer struggling and that she is at peace. I lost my brother last year and it is very hard but, God will help you through. Trust me on that. God Bless you once again.

Good morning baby girl! I ...

Good morning baby girl! I know its early but mommy can't sleep. I miss you. I think today will be especially hard because today is the first day that I won't get to see you, to touch you, to hold you, to smell you.

When I sat with you in my arms yesterday and today I felt like maybe I would be okay but now I sit and the pain in my heart is so strong. I don't understand how anyone can survive this pain. I know people do and I know I have to because of Ashley but I just don't know how. Please help Daddy and I to take care of Ashley she needs us all so much.

I miss you. I pray tonight, if I sleep, you will visit me in my dreams. Make sure you touch me so I can feel your wonderful soft hands. Call me Momma like you always did so that I can hear your precious voice. Don't leave me Ally, I never want to forget any part of you and I am so afraid I will. Let me know you are here with us. I know you are in a better place, no pain, no tubes, no hospitals, but I am selfish and I want you here.

I love you....I miss you.
Mommy


I know you have all been waiting to find out when services will be held for Ally and I will get to that in a minute. First, Shane and I want to thank everyone for all the support, prayers, and sympathy that you all have offered to us and our entire family. A special thanks for the prayers for Ashley. She really is our biggest concern and we are trying our best to help her but are struggling so much ourselves.

Second, we just want to thank everyone in the ICU at duPont for all their tremendous work in caring for Ally. I basically watched every minute of the care they provided for her the other night, but her little body just wanted to rest. Also thank you to all the wonderful staff who cared for Ashley, Shane and myself. Thank you for the stories you shared and the condolences that you offered.

Third we want to thank our parents. They started this journey with us five years ago when we first learned that Ally would be born with complications. They have held us up, they like Ally and Ashley, have been our rocks. Without them we truly would not have been able to make it through these last few years. We know their hearts are as broken as ours and we wish we could ease their pain.

I also know that there are a million other people to thank and a million phone calls and emails to return but there just doesn't seem to be enough time. Also thank you to everyone who has dropped off or prepared food. It has been delicious and a huge help unfortunately, at this time we are out of fridge and freezer space! So for right now please just send prayers, that is what we need most.

As for the services, we want everyone to know that you are welcome to attend. We know that Ally has touched many peoples lives and we want everyone to be able to come and honor her memory.

We will be accepting visitors on Friday October 17th from 4p.m. to 8p.m. in the Chapel at St. John 's Lutheran Church. Located at 45 North Reading Avenue Boyertown, Pa 19512.

A memorial service will also be held at St. John's Lutheran Church, in the Sanctuary. On Saturday, October 18th at 10:30a.m.

We are planning to have some type of luncheon after the service on Saturday but have not finalized any details. We will post more info on this at a later time.

In lieu of flowers we ask the contributions be made to the "Angel Ally Memorial Fund" National Penn Bank P.O. Box 547 Boyertown, Pa 19512

For those of you that may not know this, Ally loved the color red! We are asking that if you have anything red to wear please feel free to wear it to the services. Also if you were a member of Ally's Angels and would like to wear your t-shirt we know Ally would love to see people there in her shirt. Every time she would see us wearing her shirt she would say "you wearing my shirt?"

Again thank you for all of your support. If you have any additional questions please email us at aajsheintz@yahoo.com Shane added a bunch of new pictures today so make sure you check them all out!

Thank you,
Jill

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Carol Yeager / Sunday, October 19 2008 04:40 PM

May God Bless all of you and PEACE be with you allways.allways on my mind and in my heart Keep the Faith and also just love one another and dont ever forget all your friends here on the internet.LOVE BE WITH YOU ALL.Carol and Sterley

Courtney Stroud / Friday, October 17 2008 02:26 AM

Dear Ashley, Shane and Jill, I didn't know Ally that well, but I supported her at all her benefits and I got to see her a lot. I remember this one beautiful moment when she looked at me and gave a little smile. It made my heart so happy to see that cute little face of hers, when she smiled it seemed as if she was telling me that she was happy I was there for her. I know she is in a much better place now after all shes been through. And Ashley I never really got a chance to know you, but I would like to say that you were the best big sister ever! You are such a trooper and have gone through so much, everyone is very proud. My prayers are with you all. I would like to add that you may not remember but a few years ago at my birthday I raised money for Ally. So my class and I are going to wear red ribbons in our hair at school tomorrow in remberance of her. I remembered her favorite color was red. I think this will make Ally feel good to know that we still remember that cute little smile of hers. We will all miss her so much, I wish you well. Love Courtney Stroud 13yrs PS I attend Ville Maria Academy Lower School, just in case you were wondering.

Kasey Edison / Thursday, October 16 2008 11:58 PM

I wish I could be of some comfort. leaving for training saturday extending thru middle of next week. i'm so devastated that i wasn't able to rework my unimportant schedule to be with those i love most, who give me such inspiration. i interviewed to give part of my liver to ash. i would do ANYthing for you guys! anything at all...

The Lind's / Thursday, October 16 2008 08:38 PM

Jill,Shane,&Ashley, We will continue to put you in our prayers and say a special one for Ashley. Though we just met, I am amazed at the stength you have already shown and the ability to write such beautiful entries during this time. Though we can not imagine the pain you are going through,know that with God's help and that of your family and friends you will get through. Although Ally rests in heaven,she will not be forgotten here on earth. Her smile was angelic. Kris

Debi R / Thursday, October 16 2008 07:13 PM

Jill and Shane. You have been amazing parents and a role model to us all. I don't know how you had the strength to write what I hardly had the strength to read. I truly believe that there is a purpose for us all on this earth. You and Ally showed us how we can endure far more then we think we can. As sick as I have seen Ally you have always shown strength when you faced the uncertainty ahead and never turned away. Since that very late night that I flew Ally to Pittsburg, I have commented to so many people how I had never seen the moon so bright and beautiful as that night. Now I know why, to me Ally will not be a star in the sky, but the moon which is bigger and brighter, just like the radiance of her smile. You and your family are in my prayers.

Davis family / Thursday, October 16 2008 05:33 PM

My heart breaks for all of you. Do not worry as you will never forget her and will see her in all the little things the rest of your life. All the video and photos are a tremendous blessing too, and keep some of things that you can shove your face into and smell. She is always with all of you now watching over you and guiding you, never doubt it. She also lives on in the things that we have learned from her. I think I will work on taking more videos of my kids. My kids and I are trying to remember that Ally and Ashley would want us to value everyday and not fight or get angry at each other and to thank God for his boundless love in giving us family even if it is for a few short years. Your family is precious and strong and you will make it through because we are ALL praying for it and when a group prays for something it will be answered. Just keep the faith and know that we are all loving, hugging and praying for you. Jenn

Christy Meitzler / Thursday, October 16 2008 02:13 PM

Jill and family- My heart breaks for you and your family. You are all very strong and loving. Hold on to one another. There are no words or gestures that will make this any better for you. Trust that God is taking care of your angel and that she is with you always.

Grace / Thursday, October 16 2008 06:19 AM

Grace: Jill, We have not met yet, but my spirit goes out to you after reading your post from today. I believe in my heart that you will survive the pain, and already are - you're comforting others and reaching out to everyone else - that's stength. And love. A very wise friend told me once when I was grieving horribly over my baby's death, that the pain we feel and the tears we shed are perhaps that Little Soul's way of reminding us of their presence, and their way of not letting us forget them. This helped me tremendously with my grief, and I hope that it helps you. Embrace the pain and know that it will be ok, because your Angel will alway be with you.

Grace / Thursday, October 16 2008 06:15 AM

Grace: Jill, We have not met yet, but my spirit goes out to you after reading your post from today. I believe in my heart that you will survive the pain, and already are - you're comforting others and reaching out to everyone else - that's stength. And love. A very wise friend told me once when I was grieving horribly over my baby's death, that the pain we feel and the tears we shed are perhaps that Little Soul's way of reminding us of their presence, and their way of not letting us forget them. This helped me tremendously with my grief, and I hope that it helps you. Embrace the pain and know that it will be ok, because your Angel will alway be with you.

Kathie & John Hands / Thursday, October 16 2008 01:49 AM

We are so sorry to hear of the sudden loss of you precious wee girl. Our hearts are breaking for you. We are Matisse Reids grandparents, and send you our love and sincere sympathy from New Zealand.

Traci / Thursday, October 16 2008 01:27 AM

I am so sorry to hear about Ally's passing. My deepest condolences go out to you and your family. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Phil & Linda Manthey / Wednesday, October 15 2008 10:26 PM

We CANNOT imagine your grief, but God can, and "underneath are the everlasting arms" to hold and comfort you. You had 2 amazing daughters and your family's strength and patience were an enormous inspiration to thousands of people. Ally's smile was amazing. Lord bless you.

Darlene Dunn / Wednesday, October 15 2008 10:24 PM

Jill, Shane and Ashley, even though I'm not in Boyertown anymore, I still hold everyone in my heart and prayers. I was greatly saddened to hear of your loss. As Parish nurse I had opportunity to know you but never really got to know you because you already had such a strong support system. Lean on them in this time, or take the time to care for yourselves and your precious daughter Ashley. I remember all the times I saw Ally and she always had a huge smile on her face. She was such an inspiration. Know that prayers are rising up from NC and I will continue to do so. Lean on others and lean on the Lord, you will make it through this difficult time. God Bless Darlene Dunn (RN, Parish Nurse)

Dawn Stinnard / Wednesday, October 15 2008 09:25 PM

Family means everthing at a time like this, so lean on them and they'll hug and support you. Even though we can't hug know that your in our hugs and thoughts and prayers.You have shown so much courage and strength through all this. Remember her smile that always seemed to be there. The grace she had to make everyone grateful to know her. Bless you and your family and we'll keep you in our prayers.

samantha Hoffman / Wednesday, October 15 2008 07:54 PM

Four years ago, I began to follow Ally's story through the newspaper. Every new article in the paper, my homeroom teacher would cut out and post on the bulletin board. I enjoyed reading about how well she was doing, how she was growing, and getting so big. Her strength through adversity inspired me to transform how I go from day to day. I am a caretaker at a nursing facility and I carry her story in my heart everyday. She has impacted my life in a way that I can’t even begin to explain. Even though I have never met your family or Ally, you will always be in my prayers. You should be proud that Ally's life reached out and touched so many people. She was truly an angel just visiting us here on earth........Samantha

Meghan / Wednesday, October 15 2008 07:08 PM

My heart was broken when I heard the news. I neaver had the privalage of meeting Ally but, know of what a sweet, happy little girl she was, I couldn't help but smile when I saw her photo. I also know that you were the best parents in the world to Ally and you will cont. to be to Ashley. I read all your updates and felt your pain and worry in the bad and your joy in the great times. Ally will always be remember in our family. Your whole family is in my prays and may god help heal your broken hearts. Meghan (2008 Corvettes for Kids Spokes Child's Moms)

Aunt Nancy & Uncle Larry / Wednesday, October 15 2008 06:36 PM

Shane and family, Our family will greatly miss this amazing little girl. Ally had a big part of our hearts, even if we were many miles away. Thank you for sharing the ups and downs of her journey. Shane, you have shown remarkable courage, responsibility, love and warmth. Ally will inspire your inner strength, she will help you, Jill and Ashley get through these tough days ahead. We love you. Your family is in our prayers~ Love, Aunt Nancy and Uncle Larry

Carol Yeager / Wednesday, October 15 2008 05:47 PM

I am so very sorry to hear about your sweet and brave little girl and I wish there were words that could tell you just how saddened I was today when I checked my mail and found the message that Ally has passed on ,I am sure that you know this but the LORD says with open arms "come to me and I will let you rest and also that HE ONLY TAKES THE BEST, at this time I hope it helps to know just how many friends you have and that includes us ONLINE also Allways remember this the love that a mother has for a child goes on forever and ever I know in time it will get bettet but right now I can imagine that you must feel so empty and also in a sence you must feel so mad but remember the good times and all the love that Ally showed even thru all of her bad days You should be so proud of her and I hope that will help you find comfort in some way to keep the faith and also help Ashley to understand that death isnt an end but a new beginning for the one who has passed on into a better place with no pain or suffering anymore .Well I dont know what else to say but please remember me and I will answer your letters whenever I get them May GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU and remember there are a whole lot of friends that send their sympathy and comfort to all your family.HAVE FAITH AND TRY TO BE STRONG AS Alley was and I am sure that is how she would want you to be ,I do belive that when He sees that it is getting to difficult for someone to bear the pain that he helps to ease that pain by taking you under his wings and keeps you in his care.Once again I must say GOD BLESS Allways in our hearts, Carol and Sterley

Judi Lumis / Wednesday, October 15 2008 04:40 PM

I have not been able to stop crying since I saw the newspaper this morning. The fight that you, your husband, little Ashley, your family, and Ally herself have put up has been a gift to this community. People forget that it takes a village to raise a child, and it has never been truer than in Ally's case. Thank you, thank you so much for the gift of Ally's life. I will pray for you to find peace as there will never be understanding as to why someone so beautiful should be taken away from us. And please let Ashley know that my concern for her is as great as it was for her sister. I will pray for you all to find comfort in each other. You are such a beautiful family, don't lose faith. Judi, Chris, and our angels CJ and Madee Lumis

Mary Beth Kuzma / Wednesday, October 15 2008 04:02 PM

Jill, I am so sorry to hear about your sweet angel, Ally. You have been an amazing mother to your beautiful little girl! My heart aches for you and your family during this difficult time. My thoughts and many prayers are with you to help ease your pain. You have an amazing family and remember that God will help you through this difficult time. Take care.

Kim Burd / Wednesday, October 15 2008 02:20 PM

I was so sorry to read about the death of your precious little girl. I can't imagine the pain that you must be going through. It seems as though you have been through so much, in and out of hospitals and doctor's offices and even being on an emotional rollercoaster of hope and despair. I understand how painful it can be to lose a loved one, but to lose your own child must be devastating. What helps me to cope in such difficult times is knowing the Bible's hope for the future. Acts 24:15 explains that there will be a resurrection of all our dead loved ones in the near future and we will live peacefully on the earth, just as God originally purposed, without sickness or death. Even wars and crime will be done away with so that all of mankind will live without fear and worry. (Isaiah 2:4) The Bible promises us such things will be fulfilled. I find knowing the truth about what the Bible really teaches is of great comfort. My condolences go out to you and your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Kim Burd

Lynn / Wednesday, October 15 2008 02:05 PM

Jill, I shared with you many times while at MOPS the pain we as a family went through when we lost my brother. So, I agree: nobody should endure that kind of pain and it feels unbearable. We are ALL praying for you, and I pray you feel the peace that surpasses all understanding

Jenny Clark / Wednesday, October 15 2008 01:47 PM

I am in shock- Ally looked so good- it doesn't seem possible- from the very fist time I saw Ally she always had had smile on her face- even though she had a different life than you would have wanted for her- her bright smile showed she was loved by everyone around her- she was a happy child- I'm sure she is sharing her bright light and special smile with all of her Heavenly friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you now as they have been all these years. Sincerely, Jenny Clark and family

Dawn Hastings / Wednesday, October 15 2008 01:16 PM

I really do not even know what to say other than I am praying for you all so much. I pray that you could feel God's prescence around you like a warm blanket. Love, Dawn ~ ^i^Brandon^i^, Jordan, & Seth's mom

Tricia Ettinger / Wednesday, October 15 2008 01:07 PM

To Ally's Family: I am so sorry to have read in the newspaper today of Ally's passing. My cousin had last their 4 year son one year ago in March 2008 to Neuroblastoma. His name was Trevor Gresko. He was also on the Caringbridge Foundation Webpage. I'm sure your angel will be greeted by our angel Trevor in heaven. Always know that your angel will always be with you and in your hearts! God Bless! Tricia Ettinger

The Puleo Family / Wednesday, October 15 2008 12:51 PM

Shane, Jill and Ashley, You have been in our hearts since before Ally was born. We were always sure to ask after evertime we saw Donny and Mary Kay and the rest of the family. May God give you peace for the pain that lies deep within you. A pain I can not begin to imagine. Know that love surrounds you now as it always has. Blessings to you and your entire family at the very difficult time. Becky (Harner) Puleo and family.

Bonnie Kooker / Wednesday, October 15 2008 12:49 PM

Jill & Shane, I have followed Ally's journey for several years and my heart goes out to you and your families. No words can ease your pain at this time, but always remember that so many people read about Ally and thought of her and your family and prayed for you every day. I will continue to pray for both of you, your families and especially Ashley as you go through this heartbreaking time. Bonnie

Christina / Wednesday, October 15 2008 12:41 PM

Jill,Shane and Ashley, Our prayers are with you all. I never got to know Ally in person or you all, but through this site, if feel like part of the family. I pray that God will wrap His loving arms around you and comfort you. I pray that He will give you all the strength you need during this very difficult time. I have posted a prayer request for you all on my Christian message board...we will continue to pray so hard for you all. If you need anything please let us know. http://christlives.yuku.com/directory Love in Christ, Christina Hopkins and The Christ Haven Team

Audrey Eddinger / Wednesday, October 15 2008 12:32 PM

Jill, Shane, Ashley, My prayers and thoughts are with you and all of your family. Ally was a very special little girl, Ashley your sister was a joy to you I know. She will be sadly missed by so many people. No one should have to loose a child/sister so young. I now you have great support from so many people and hope that will be comforting. Ally will never be far from my thoughts. Take Care Audrey

The Bollingers / Wednesday, October 15 2008 11:13 AM

Our thoughts and prayers are with you now and for many days to come. It has been a difficult journey not only for Ally but for your entire family. Ally has touched so many people and her memory will live on. Hug Ashley a little tighter, a little longer and in return she will be the one comforting you. Love surrounds you.

Becki / Wednesday, October 15 2008 10:56 AM

Oh Jill, My heart just groans when I think of the pain that you and Shane have been through in the past couple of days and the emptiness you are still enduring. We will be praying for you, and for your whole wonderful family.

Luann / Wednesday, October 15 2008 10:41 AM

You do not know who I am, but I have heard so much about Ally through people who know the family as well as the newspapers. You have a difficult road ahead of you. I know this, because I too lost a child not all that long ago. I was lucky enough to have my son for 23 years and it was nowhere near long enough. All I can say is treasure the four precious years you did have with her and the memories of the days that she brought you such joy and made everyone smile will keep you going. Keep your faith! That's the single most important thing that kept me going along with my close friends and family. I still seek comfort that he is in a much better place and its now his turn to join God and help watch over me. I know he does. I miss him so much and a small piece of my heart breaks every day but I know it time that will subside. As the song says "only the good die young" and don't forget "God never makes mistakes". Take care of yourself, the rest of your family and may God be with you and help you through this early most difficult tme.

Diane / Wednesday, October 15 2008 10:11 AM

Dear Jill, Shane & Ashley, You and your family have traveled a long, difficult journey. I pray that God will comfort you and help to ease the aches in your hearts. May you find some peace knowing Ally will suffer no more. You and Ally are inspiration to the community with your strength and courage. She will not be forgotten--her beautiful smile will always shine. Diane

The Diachynsky's / Wednesday, October 15 2008 08:31 AM

Jill, Shane & Ashley, Our prayers are with you! You are an amazing family that has been thru more than one family should have to go thru in their life....there is no doubt that together you will get thru this terrible time. Being a parent and knowing your family my heart just breaks everytime I think of what you are going thru.....some how I pray that knowing you have such a big support system will make it somehow a little easier. Tracy

Oh Ally!!! I woke up ...

Oh Ally!!! I woke up this morning early and walked into your room hoping yesterday was just an awful dream. Not to see you lying there has left me so empty.

Daddy misses you so much, and you only been gone one day. I wished so many times I could take your place and pain away, but today I really want too switch places!

We had so much fun these past few weeks, and you were so happy the other day. Why couldn't I see that you were not feeling so well?

We were supposed to go to Disney today to finally have your wish granted, and you left without us. Why, why couldn't you wait! I don't know how I am going to go on without caring for you. That is all mommy and daddy know how to do, is care for you.

My heart just breaks when I look around this house and all the toys you left sitting out. Your room, your cloths, the smell of you, how do I let that all go?

I swear I'm living a nightmare, I just want to wake up... no parent should ever be faced with losing their child. No parent should have to endure so much pain and heartache!

Ally, I want to be positive and strong for you and Ashley, but Daddy is so tired of being that person. I know the right things to do are to continue to help all those other sick children who need us and your Angel's presence, but how do I get that strength back?

Ally I know your home, and I hope you will wait for me to get there. Daddy misses you so much this morning, and love you, Ashley and Mommy with every bit of my heart!

Please Ally give me strength!


Love you, Daddy

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The Kennedy's / Friday, October 17 2008 12:40 AM

We just met your beautiful family at Ashley's birthday party on Saturday and were so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We can not even imagine your pain but know we are thinking of you and your little angel. God bless.

The Kennedy's / Friday, October 17 2008 12:27 AM

We just met your beautiful family at Ashley's birthday party on Saturday and were so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. We can not even imagine your pain but know we are thinking of you and your little angel. God bless.

Tina Shanda / Thursday, October 16 2008 05:34 PM

My thoughts are with you all..I cant tell you how hard it is forme to see you go through this pain since I have struggled with it myself. Just know her pain and hurt is now gone...and she will always be with you. Im so sorry....

Aunt Donna/Nana / Wednesday, October 15 2008 08:51 PM

Your precious little girl is now with Jesus, she was such an inspiration to my family as we got to interact with her. She is the "CUTEST LITTLE ANGEL" in HEAVEN & by now has been promoted to "QUEEN ALLY" as I write. We love you guys so much, been so blessed to know you so well. Lots of prayers for "SWEET ASHLEY" too:))

The Dierolf's / Wednesday, October 15 2008 05:45 AM

Shane, Jill and Ashley, My family had met Ally on several occasions and the one thing we will never forget is her smile.My 8 year old has taken the news hard and we have many tear filled talks.. Her answer is simply that when Ally was born she was not "done" yet and God took her so she could finish.Courtney loved Ally and would talk about her everyday after Bible school this summer and when she would see her in church she would always rejoice because if Ally was at church it must mean she is doing well.When she found out during bible school that Ally was sick she came home and had a lemonade stand to raise money she was so proud to walk to church and give pastor John the money she earned. I can not imagine your pain and thoughts going thru your minds.We send all of you hugs and kisses and prayers that time will heal your broken hearts and that you have peace in knowing that this is not the end.You will see her again but until then hold onto eachother as God is holding onto each of you.I wrote this poem years ago when I lost someone I loved dearly I hope it helps a little now. A Death has just occurred and our lives are all blurred we are sad the world seems so dark the tears continue to flow like a never ending rain the pain is hard to bear In the distance there is a glow a flicker of light every day the tears come less the pain starts fading away as the light gets closer the good memories come back and ease the pain even more until the light finally reaches and is all around except for a little black speck to keep the memory alive It will not happen fast But it WILL happen And so for now, Well at least we have that flicker of light Remember the Lord is OUR light and our salvation. God Bless , Noelle, Matt, Jon, Alyssa & Courtney

unibrower / Wednesday, October 15 2008 04:09 AM

Many tears will be shed for our loss of such a Beautiful Little Girl.Many prayers are being said for Your Whole Family. We are here for you all. She will always have a special spot in our hearts.She will always be our Little Angel-Love to All

The Houcks / Wednesday, October 15 2008 03:55 AM

Shane,Jill & Ashley My Gods peace be with you. Ally was a true gift to everyone. Your family is in our prayers.

Davis family / Wednesday, October 15 2008 01:31 AM

We are so sorry to hear about Ally. She was an awesome person. We loved seeing her pictures on the site and getting glimpses of her at church. We do not know what to say really except that we are praying for all of you and your family knowing that God will send you the strength you all need to make it through the following days. My Ally will miss helping her "birthday buddy." We send the warmest hugs to you and will keep that little Ashley highest in our thoughts and prayers.

Dawn Stinnard / Tuesday, October 14 2008 11:04 PM

Sorry to hear about Ally. Keep loving her and talking to her it may help heal your hearts. God has taking her home and healed her so she can be your special angel. Shane your a good father don't say otherwise. She loved you as daddy. Love Ashley and Jill and you will always love Ally.She's in your heart and soul.

Karen & Jason Konnick / Tuesday, October 14 2008 10:07 PM

Shane, Jill and Ashley -- Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing Ally and her life and story with us. We are all better people for knowing her. She is truly an angel!

The Stoudt's / Tuesday, October 14 2008 09:56 PM

We feel like we are part of your family just from reading your updates. We are so sorry for your loss! You are both such wonderful parents and did all you could possibly do for Ally. And Ashley has been a wonderful sister too! We can't even imagine what your going through. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God Bless! Bruce and Debbie.

Noelle / Tuesday, October 14 2008 09:01 PM

My deepest sympathy to you both, and of course Ashley...you all gave Ally such a wonderful life in the face of such trials to live it. If nothing else, Ally taught us all to be thankful for each day we have on this earth!

Kathy & Jeff / Tuesday, October 14 2008 08:28 PM

We're so sorry about your precious little Ally. We can't imagine the deep pain you're all feeling. You are your family have touched many lives. May God give you His peace and strength today and in the days to come.

Michelle Kelly / Tuesday, October 14 2008 08:22 PM

Jill, Ashley, Shane All my thoughts and prayers are with you. Ally was an amazing child who has a tremendous spirit. I am honored to have known her and your family. I will think of her often. In sympathy and love, Michelle Kelly (NNP)

Cindy / Tuesday, October 14 2008 07:26 PM

Though I never met Ally personally, I felt like I was a part of her life, following her struggles as well as her joys through the photos and words on this website. I look forward to meeting Ally one day when she and Jesus greet us all in heaven.

Mark Snyder / Tuesday, October 14 2008 07:00 PM

Shane, Jill, and Ashley: There are no words at a time like this. Please know that many are praying for you all. Take all the time you need to pour out your hearts to the Lord, for He understands. I share your heavy hearts. May God's Presence be more real to now than at any other time. You will always carry Ally in your hearts. Pastor Mark

The Latshaw Family / Tuesday, October 14 2008 06:47 PM

We have followed Ally's story from the beginning and although we do not know you well, we've kept up to date on Ally's condition through a mutual friend (Tiffany Dunning) as well as through Jill's sister Heather. (Our daughters go to school with Heather's girls). I wish I had the words to say to take away your grief. I hope in some small way it brings you comfort to know that although Ally's life was short, she contributed more to this world than most of us do in a lifetime. She brought hope and inspiration to many in the Boyertown area and beyond. Your family's strength and courage over the last several years have made many people re-examine their own lives and hug their own children a little tighter. And your family has made many people think about and consider the gift of organ donation. I hope it brings you some solace to know what a special little girl Ally was and that she has left a lasting impression on people that never even really knew her. Shane, do not doubt yourself as a father, to Ally you were the best Dad in the world because you were HER Daddy. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers and will continue to be in the coming weeks and months. Cale, Audrey (Hoffman), Katie, Ashley & Jake Latshaw

The Bollilngers / Tuesday, October 14 2008 05:44 PM

Your feelings are normal and very understandable. Losing a child is one of the hardest things that any parent should have to deal with. We are all here for you, Jill and Ashley...You need to lean on each other and you will get through this. Precious Ally will always be a part of you and you will never lose that. Hold on to those memories...give Jill and Ashley extra hugs and hold them tight. You will find they will comfort you as well. Many thoughts and prayers are with you. God Bless.

Steph / Tuesday, October 14 2008 05:07 PM

Shane, you dont need to be strong 24/7. As someone else said you can grieve and hate it right now. You can let it out. Ally was a wonderful little girl and I can imagine your pain. It is only human to not be strong "for everyone else" Be with your family and dont worry about all of the others. This is your time. You are in our prayers and hope that god can give you the stength that you need steph www.caringbridge.org/visit/stephanie6

Charrele / Tuesday, October 14 2008 04:52 PM

Shane, this is the very first time I have been on Ally's site. Please allow me to express my deepest sympathies to you, your wife, and your daughter Ashley. You have an excellent support system at home and at work. You guys have done a phenomenal job documenting Ally and Ashley's life. It will bring you very fond memories as you get further away from the grief. You will always miss her. She knows that she was loved. Ally was a superhero. You and your wife are the best parents she could have wished for. Pat yourself on the back for giving her unconditional love and and the best care. Then go and kiss Ashley. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. I pray the Lord's blessing on your family as you go through this extremely tough time.

Keith / Tuesday, October 14 2008 03:43 PM

I know nothing can be said during this difficult time, but I think Ally was sitting on Matt Stairs' shoulder last night. God bless all of you.

Dawn Alderfer / Tuesday, October 14 2008 03:28 PM

Words cannot really express enough right now, so I will send you a big hug and pray that God will give you the strength you need for the upcoming days and heartache. I know God's heart is breaking with yours. Blessings, Dawn Alderfer (MOPS)

Kathy Hyland / Tuesday, October 14 2008 03:26 PM

Shane, Jill and Ashley, I was so very sorry to hear about Ally and cannot imagine your pain. Ally was lucky to have such wonderful parents and a sister, who loved her so very much. I hope that your memories of Ally's smiling face help you to find peace and comfort in this most difficult time.

margaret TV-60 / Tuesday, October 14 2008 03:07 PM

Shane, Jill and Ashley We have kept up with your updates and feel we know you all so well. As you miss Ally remember that she is in the best place that she can be with our Lord...no more pain and suffering. We pray for strenght for all of you. Your love and dedication for Ally was amazing!

Christine Graham / Tuesday, October 14 2008 02:46 PM

Jill, Shane and Ashley: My heart aches for you in this difficult time. I will always keep Ally in my heart for she was such a strong little girl. I want you to remember that she had a wonderful supportive and loving family that brought her so much life. We will keep her memories alive in our hearts. Please give Ashley extra hugs and kisses for me.

Shylah / Tuesday, October 14 2008 02:11 PM

Shane, Jill and Ashley, My heart is breaking for you all. Ally was such a special, beautiful little girl. She was so full of joy even if she wasn't feeling so great. You guys are such a wonderful family, I pray for you to have the strength to get through this. Give Ashley extra hugs from us all. Shylah

The Davidheiser's / Tuesday, October 14 2008 01:28 PM

Shane, Jill, and Ashley, words cannot express the sadness we all feel for the loss of your beautiful Ally! We loved her and I felt so lucky to have known her and had her in our Sunday School class. Your family will be in our hearts and prayers. We will pray for your strength through this extremely hard time. God Bless you all! Mike, Betty, Kyle & Zach Daviheiser

Mary / Tuesday, October 14 2008 01:07 PM

I believe Jesus takes special care of children who return to His kingdom. I am so, so sorry for your pain and grief. I am praying for peace and healing in your family.

holly / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:47 PM

Shane,my heart's breaking for you and Jill right now. I know there's no words. It's blackness. minute by minute is all you can do. Ally is and always was an angel.

Dee Berger / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:44 PM

Shane...we got the call late last night and I simply could not believe it. We've never met, however, I've followed Ally's story these past several years via this site. I was blessed to have witnessed the miracle that she is at the Bechtelsville Gun Club Fishing Rodeo this past Spring - under an umbrella, playing with Ashley and others in the drizzle. What an amazing little girl! A testament to you and Jill as parents. I can't even begin to fathom the grief that your family is feeling right now, but I know that your tremendous faith will get you through, as it has done in the past. Our prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing Ally with all of us.

Debbie/Angel_Wings / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:43 PM

I am so very sorry for your loss of ^^Ally^^. Please know that your family is in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you.

Kristi Cole / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:37 PM

I came across your daughter's website last week and read her entire journal. My son too is waiting for a small bowel transplant at CHP. After reading about Ally's many struggles pre & post transplant and then reading that she was finally doing so well was such an encouragement. In fact, I mentioned Ally and another transplant kiddo yesterday to my mother in regards to how much they struggled initially post-transplant and then how well they are doing today. I was shocked and so sad to read last night that Ally had passed. Please know that Ally's story has touched many. Your family is in my prayers. Kristi Cole & Brody www.carepages.com Carepage Name-brodyjcole

mbh / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:30 PM

God bless you. Many tears will be shed for our loss of Ally today and in honor of the heroic job you did to make her life full of love, friends, family and fun.

Lori / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:26 PM

I am so sorry about sweet little Ally! I hear your pain in your writing and I am just so sorry for you all but, know little Ally is with our Lord and pain free and her little heart is healed. Praise the Lord that Ally is pain free but, I will pray for all of your hearts cause I know that their broken. I pray that God will give you all strength beyond measure. Blessings, Lori/Angel_Wings

Heather LaBombard / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:24 PM

good job Shane, let it out. Continue to talk to Ally and let her know how you feel. we are all here to listen and support you.

As many of you or ...

As many of you or may have heard, today our little girl was called upon to take her trip with Jesus. You can't even begin to imagine what it's like to have put so much into raising a child like Ally, only without warning to have her taken from you. She was so happy yesterday and this weekend.

I'm not even sure what to say in this update, for the first time I am lost for words. Not too mention writing while crying never really works well.

Ally passed away this morning at 5:59 a.m. The staff at duPont hospital did everything they could to save her. It seems it may have been an infection, and her little heart couldn't go no more.
Jill was there to be with her, and just like Ally coming into this world, (which I missed) I also missed saying goodbye! Some father huh?

I can't write anymore, my headache is too much to bare. We will update soon with funeral services. Most likely they will be this Saturday.

Thank you for all the prayers and well wishes! Without such great support, we would have never had these past 4 great years as we did with Ally.

Please pray extra hard for Ashley, our poor girl has been through so much!!!!
Shane

comments

Christie Groover / Tuesday, October 28 2008 02:00 PM

Shane, Jill and Ashley... my thoughts are with you as I only found out today of Ally's passing. Shane, never doubt your abilities as a father. Ya know, God has a way of sparing us pain that sometimes we just cannot bare. Jill was there for a reason and you weren't. Ally knew your love for her. Jill - stay strong. Mother's are Gods blessing to us all. My prayers are with you.

Jennifer / Thursday, October 16 2008 03:40 PM

Jill, Shane and Ashley: Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We are so lucky to have known Ally. She taught us up about triumph, having a positive and great attitude, love, perserverence, and about really living life through the great and the tough times. Those lessons will live on along with her fabulous smile that is ingrained in our memory. Ashley - Samantha sends a lot of hugs and kisses. She really misses her friend. She loves you. Love. Jennifer, Larry, Samantha and Grayson

Kristen Allen / Thursday, October 16 2008 09:42 AM

Shane, I know that this time is the most horrific of anything that you have endured over the past 4 years with Ally, but you are a terrific father! My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Carol Yeager / Wednesday, October 15 2008 06:17 PM

I am sending this message to Shane and I just wanted him to know that he has been a wonderful DAD and HUSBAND and he has absolutely no reason to feel as though he wasnt, in times like those that you all went through and he had so much else to do to see thst his family was taken care of He has been nothing but wonderful and he has no reason to think otherwise.I hope that he will someway find pease and comfort in time Please try to think of what Alley would want for you ,I feel as though she would want her daddy to just be happy and also find comfort in some way knowing that there is no more suffering or pain for her anymore.Allways PLEASE remember that the time you have with a child is so precious and we must just be thankful for the time spent with them.REMEMBER also that HE only takes the BEST.It must seem so hard at this time to understand that but I am sure in time you will be able to comprihend just what I am trying to say.Allways in our hearts and on our minds .Prayers be with you allways Carol and Sterley

Patricia/Angel Wings / Wednesday, October 15 2008 04:48 AM

I am so sorry to hear about Precious Ally's death. I am holding each of you close in my thoughts & prayers. May Our Lord supply each need that you have. God bless always.

Annette / Wednesday, October 15 2008 01:54 AM

I am sorry to hear your loss. May your sweet girl rest in peace.

martha chase reisinger / Wednesday, October 15 2008 12:43 AM

I am very sorry to hear the news... you both are wonderful parents. Ally is in peace. we are thinking and praying for all of you! Martha

Chris Karver / Wednesday, October 15 2008 12:15 AM

Ally is with the saints now. I pray that Jesus will hold her dear and I will pray to Ally that she will help her family in their time of grief and sorrow.

Valerie Pursel / Tuesday, October 14 2008 11:54 PM

I am so sorry to hear Ally went to be with the other angles today.. Please accept my sincere condolences. Although I never met any of you I have been following All's Story for the past year and a half and I feel like I know you.. Again I am so very sorry.. God will take good care of her.. He has plans for her. Remember the good times you were able to have with her. God will help you through this.. God Bless all of you.

Stefani (Nathan's mom) / Tuesday, October 14 2008 11:48 PM

Ally inspired us all and we will always remember her smiling face during the trike-a-thon. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

mary kay / Tuesday, October 14 2008 08:30 PM

I can't even think of any words right now...Ally was so special and will be missed by so many people...my love, prayers and thoughts are with your family

Ken and Becki / Tuesday, October 14 2008 07:28 PM

We know that any words we say won't take away your pain any more than a mommy or daddy's kiss takes away the pain of a child's ouchie. But just like a mommy still feels the need to kiss her wounded child, we are searching for something, anything, to say that may be some comfort to your broken hearts. Shane and Jill, you were an excellent father and mother to Ally during the time that you had with her, as you still are to Ashley. Ashley, you were such a sweet sister to Ally. We will pray for strength and healing for all of you in this difficult time.

Bonmer Family / Tuesday, October 14 2008 06:47 PM

Jill, Shane and Ashley - we are so sorry for your loss! How many people this little girl has touched is amazing - she is an ANGEL! We can not imagine your pain and loss. We will keep your family in out prayers.

Joanne / Tuesday, October 14 2008 06:45 PM

My heart grieves at the loss of Ally and for your entire family. Ally was a certainly a precious gift from God that he bestowed on your family perhaps to bring you a deeper understanding of HIS love. Ally was an inspiration to me, as has been your entire family. You are all very precious. We pray for all of you during this difficult time. Shane, I understand your grief, but you can be assured that you are a wonderful father. You were there for Ally - she knew your love. May you, Jill and Ashley find comfort in remembering the times you did share with her and the glory Ally is now living with the Lord!

Crystal / Tuesday, October 14 2008 06:34 PM

To the Heintz and Heimbach families: We are so sorry for the loss of your little angel. Our hearts and prayers are with you. May God give you strength and comfort. Crystal, Cory and Hayden

Chad and Kimberly Kardos / Tuesday, October 14 2008 06:29 PM

Shane, Jill and Ashley, Chad just shared the news and we will be praying for all of you. May God's love be with you all and comfort you.

Jennifer Strickland Herb / Tuesday, October 14 2008 06:26 PM

Im so sorry to hear about the passing of Ally. Though I never got to meet your amazing little girl I have followed her story and prayed for her. She was so loved by so many people and she will forever teach others the importance of family. I'm praying for you and your entire family through this hard time. God Bless Jen

Kirsten Bollinger / Tuesday, October 14 2008 06:19 PM

I'm so sorry about your loss. Remember all those sweet times with Ally. I never had the chance to meet your wonderful family but I do attend your church and have heard so many wonderful things about Ally and her love and passion for life. My prayers are with you and your family! Ally has walked in and out of our lives but she has left footprints on so many hearts. God Bless!

Hilary / Tuesday, October 14 2008 04:17 PM

God is your strength. He loves you and Ally and all.

Debra / Tuesday, October 14 2008 03:22 PM

Dear Shane,Jill and Ashley: May GOD comfort you, may you gain the strength to continue to shine ALLY's LIGHT. We love you, We Love ALLY, now in Eternal Life.

Steph / Tuesday, October 14 2008 03:09 PM

Jill, Shane, and Ashley We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. Darrin, Steph, Kegan and Steven Hoffa

Angie / Tuesday, October 14 2008 03:05 PM

I am so sorry for your loss! Losing a child is something none of us should ever have to endure. My heart goes out to you. Prayers for your family as you go through this very, very difficult time.

Donna Schanze / Tuesday, October 14 2008 02:56 PM

Shane, Jill and Ashley, I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. Ally was an inspiration to all including myself. Her strength taught me so much. I enjoyed seeing and chatting with her when she came to pick Ashley up in Sunday School. You and your entire family are in my thought and prayers.

Rae Lapine / Tuesday, October 14 2008 02:53 PM

I am so sorry for your loss. Wendy let me know. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. Rae

Stacy Stauffer / Tuesday, October 14 2008 02:18 PM

Jill, Shane and Ashley, Brian and I are so very sorry for your loss. Ally was such a special little girl. Our prayers are with you!

Wendy Troxel / Tuesday, October 14 2008 01:45 PM

I am so very sorry to hear about the loss of your precious little girl. I am so glad we were fortunate enough to get to know her and you all during your time in Pittsburgh. We are thinking of you and sending you love and strength.

Bob & Karen / Tuesday, October 14 2008 01:30 PM

Shane Karen and I are at a complete loss and so very sorry. When I saw her at the organ donor run I was shocked to see how well she was doing and now this. I tried to call but the number I have was no longer working. Give me a call when you get a chance and just let me know if you guys need ANYTHING at all.

Sany Maicher / Tuesday, October 14 2008 01:02 PM

Oh I don't even know where to begin. I am so sorry. My heart is breaking through my tears. You all were like family to us. Please know that we love all of you and all of you will be in our hearts and prayers.

Dana Fruzynski (Noah's Mom) / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:20 PM

I am so sorry to hear about Ally. She was a special little girl. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.

phil h / Tuesday, October 14 2008 11:57 AM

Heintz Family My condolences on the loss of Ally. I will pray for your family, and I will make sure that the second grade Sunday class prays for your family as well PEACE BE WITH YOU

Heidi Snyder / Tuesday, October 14 2008 11:45 AM

Jill, Shane and Ashley I am so sorry about Ally's passing, what a precious little girl. She is walking with Jesus today hand in hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Andy / Tuesday, October 14 2008 11:38 AM

Thoughts and prayers are truly with you and your family.

Stephanie 3CS / Tuesday, October 14 2008 11:35 AM

Im am so sorry for your loss.. Ally was an amazing little girl who we love very much. She will always been in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with you

Becky / Tuesday, October 14 2008 11:30 AM

What could I possibly say, but how shocked and sorry I am! We've never met, but for years I've followed little Ally's journey through it all. You're website is wonderful and I feel as though I know your family. But I could never know your grief today. I will pray for the peace, rest, and assurance that can only come from Christ. Let Him hold you especially tight this week. You are in our prayers. Becky and family

The Bollingers / Tuesday, October 14 2008 10:59 AM

Jill, Shane and Ashley... Our deepest sympathy is extended to. I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Your precious Ally is an angel in heaven. You have been wonderful parents and sister and Ally knows that. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Krista & Jason Rose / Tuesday, October 14 2008 10:56 AM

Jill, Shane, and Ashley We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Ally was such a wonderful little girl, she was lucky to have you as her family. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you.

Donna / Tuesday, October 14 2008 10:04 AM

Entire Heintz Family, I am so sorry for the loss of your little girl. She has brought so much hope to so many people. She was a fighter and she fought a very long hard battle. God bless your family and your family will be in my prayers.

Carla and Bob Brodbeck / Tuesday, October 14 2008 08:43 AM

We are so sorry to hear about precious Ally. You and your family are in our prayers. Shane, don't think for a moment that you are not a good father. God chose you and Jill as Ally's parents because you are strong, excellent parents. Ashley will probably take this really hard, too. You are all in our prayers. Know that many, many people love and support you.

Brady & Andrea Reed / Tuesday, October 14 2008 07:19 AM

Shane & Jill, PLEASE know how many prayers are coming your way. Your faithful and selfless love for your children has been such a beautiful inspiration to SO many. Ally touched SO many people's lives and will no doubt, continue to do so, just from another place!

Chris / Tuesday, October 14 2008 04:24 AM

My heart ACHES for you all! No words can possibly express it, and I know that no human words can ever take away your pain. However, the wonderful and HOPEFUL spirit that WAS ALLY'S, to the ULTIMATE, will live in all our hearts for as long as we all live! Wow, what a marvelous example she was to us all. She embraced life in it's purest sense and loved ever minute to the fullest when she was able. Whoa, what a wake up call to us all!

3CS Staff / Tuesday, October 14 2008 03:29 AM

We send your family a great big hug and Ally will always be in all of our hearts.

steph / Tuesday, October 14 2008 02:40 AM

Oh my god I am in such shock over the news I just read. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Shane, dont beat yourself up. You are a wonderful fathers providing all that you can and Ally always new that. Praying for you guys steph

Fontana's / Tuesday, October 14 2008 02:32 AM

To Jill, Shane, Ashley, Mary Kay, Donnie, and all your families - We are without words, trying to make sense of this. Ally is surely in heaven, one of the most precious of angels. When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a Treasure. God Bless

Kurt and Janine Davidheiser / Tuesday, October 14 2008 02:08 AM

Jill, Shane and Ashley, We are so sorry for your loss. Ally is definitely your guardian angel and will always be there for all of you, guiding you all. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Katie / Tuesday, October 14 2008 01:25 AM

What a fortunate litle girl Ally was - that she had the best care possible from Day One, very special parents and a sister who cherished her, and a life that inspired so many. My prayers are with you all, especially your sweet angel who is loving you through all this.

Marie and Andy S. / Tuesday, October 14 2008 01:00 AM

God bless your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Ally was an angel while on earth and now she is one in heaven.

Dayle and Dave / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:58 AM

Jill, Shane, Ashley, MaryKay, Donnie and the entire family, our hearts our heavy with the loss of Alley. We will never forget those forever smiles she shared with all of us. Please know that we are here for you, please call. Our prayers are with you.........

Laura / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:51 AM

I'm so sorry to hear about Ally. She was such a great fighter and determined little girl. Her memory will live on through all of us. We're all here for you, no matter what you need. Shane, you were there for Ally every moment..she couldn't have asked for a better Dad.

Jen / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:41 AM

Words cannot express how sorry I am for the loss of your little girl. She was an inspiration to so many - and I hope that you know that she touched so many people's hearts. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Lynne / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:02 AM

There are no words...thank you for allowing me to be part of your little angel's life here on earth. I am truly blessed to have known her. Ally touched so many hearts, of those she knew and loved, and so many people she'd never even met. My heart aches. My love to you all.

Amy Pavlik / Tuesday, October 14 2008 12:01 AM

Jill, Shane and Ashley, Only god knows why he needs her up there, we can only think it is because she was and always will be a little angel. She has endured so much in her 4 years here...I often wondered as parents how you two did all that you did. You are more than an amazing father, and couldn't have done any more than you did. Please know that so many are thinking about you and praying that your pain be eased.

Laurie / Monday, October 13 2008 11:51 PM

Jill,Shane and Ashley I am so sorry to hear about Ally. This time last year I was at UPMC with my mom and I was inspired by the love and strength that your family has. This little girl was loved so much and I am glad to have met her and your family. I will tell my mom to watch over this little angel. My thoughts and prayer are with you and your family at this sad time.

Jeanine / Monday, October 13 2008 11:39 PM

I am so sorry for the loss of your angel. My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family, especially Ashley. You are wonderful parents and I feel blessed to have met your family. Sending lots of love.

kasey / Monday, October 13 2008 11:37 PM

Shane, never doubt what a wonderful father you are and have always been. Ally is the beautiful, vibrant fighter as only she can be because of your and Jill's love, hope, understanding, and patience.

Michele & Rich / Monday, October 13 2008 11:23 PM

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.

Susan / Monday, October 13 2008 11:13 PM

Jill, Shane and Ashley - I am so sorry to hear about Ally today. Shane you are a great father and always have been. No words are enough to express my deepest sympathy to all of you. My prayers are with you all. Ally has been an inspiration to everyone through her tough and inspiring fight for life.

Dana - Aide from AI / Monday, October 13 2008 10:58 PM

I am so sorry for your loss, I send my prayers to you all! I am so glad that I was able to know Ally, she was a wonderful little princess. She will be greatly missed by the 3CS staff!

Tricia Howerter / Monday, October 13 2008 10:44 PM

Mike and I are so very sorry to hear of your loss. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers.

Shari Widlund / Monday, October 13 2008 10:42 PM

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Ally will be an inspiration to us all. I feel priveleged to have met and known her. Know that Jesus will take the Best of care with your sweet precious child. You will be in my prayers forever.

The Huff's / Monday, October 13 2008 10:40 PM

Jill,Shane and Ashley, Our deepest and most sincere condolences. We too are at a loss for words. Phyllis, Brian, Jillian and Lucas

Brad and Tammie Kear / Monday, October 13 2008 10:35 PM

We are so saddened to hear about Ally. Please know we hold your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Julia Corcoran / Monday, October 13 2008 10:19 PM

I am so sorry. Find strength in the love that you have for each other as a family, and know that there is a little piece of Ally in the hearts of all that knew her.

Treena / Monday, October 13 2008 10:10 PM

I am so sorry to hear about Ally. Your family will be in our prayers.

Kathy / Monday, October 13 2008 09:59 PM

Shane... I am so very sorry... I will be praying for you and your family.

Rachel & Ben Frey / Monday, October 13 2008 09:48 PM

Please know how sorry we are to hear of Ally's passing. I imagine that no words, at this point, will bring much comfort, but be certain that you and your daughters have taught us how precious life is thru your actions and love.

Mary / Monday, October 13 2008 09:46 PM

I love you ally.

Mary / Monday, October 13 2008 09:46 PM

I love you ally.

Shari / Monday, October 13 2008 09:43 PM

I have no words. My heart is aching with yours today!

Karen Shellenberger / Monday, October 13 2008 09:32 PM

My heart aches for you and your entire family. Words cannot express the sadness I feel for you all of you.

Sherry Strock / Monday, October 13 2008 09:26 PM

I am so very sorry to hear about Ally. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Love the Strocks

Betty & Dave / Monday, October 13 2008 09:17 PM

Ally had a lifetime of trouble, but she had a lifetime of love packed into her 4 short years. She is an Angel with Jesus now, just as she was an Angel here. Love and Warm thoughts Betty & Dave Burdan

Kim Donohue and family / Monday, October 13 2008 09:16 PM

Jill and Shane, Our prayers are with you. I am so sad for you and my heart breaks for Ashley. Praying continuously. Love, the donohue's

Lorena / Monday, October 13 2008 08:51 PM

Shane, I am so lost for words. I am so sorry to hear such painful news today. Ally has touched so many lives. Your little girl is an Angel in heaven now. You are a good father and Ally knew that her father loved her. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

The Diachynsky's / Monday, October 13 2008 08:43 PM

Jill, Shane and Ashley, We are SO sorry for your loss! You and your families are in our prayers and thoughts. Words can not describe the sorrow we feel for you and your family. Allie was a special little girl....hold on to that!

Lynn / Monday, October 13 2008 08:36 PM

My heart is breaking for you. Gain comfort in knowing Ally is with Jesus.

Linda / Monday, October 13 2008 08:29 PM

Words cannot express the deep sorrow I feel for your loss. Ally was truly an inspiration. My heart goes out to you, your family, and especially Ashley.

Teri, John and Grace / Monday, October 13 2008 08:26 PM

Dear Jill, Shane and Ashley, We are so sorry for your immense grief. Ally will be very missed, even by us who knew her mostly by through pictures and your journal. We will not stop praying for you three, esp little Ashley. Please give her a hug from us. Let her know she is very loved, and God always has a better plan in mind than we do. He protects us from the worst, even when we are feeling that we know the worst and are living the worst. God loves us and is for us. Don't forget that. Love, The Hinckleys

Paula K. / Monday, October 13 2008 08:22 PM

Shane, Jill and Ashley, I am so sorry to hear about Ally. She was a terrific little girl who was very lucky to have you as family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Bob and Deb / Monday, October 13 2008 08:13 PM

Jill,Shane and Ashley-We are so very sorry to hear of Ally's passing-she always was so happy -she was blessed to have you as her parents and Ashley as her sister just as I was blessed to get to know her and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Uncle Ronnie / Monday, October 13 2008 08:07 PM

Shane, Ashley and Jill, I'm so sorry for your loss, I do not have the words to express my sorrow, you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Susan / Monday, October 13 2008 08:07 PM

Shane, you are a good dad, don't doubt that. No one could have known she would leave this morning. My thoughts are with you and your family. Ally was a special little girl who touched many people's lives.

Laura / Monday, October 13 2008 07:39 PM

I am so sorry to hear about your little girl. She was full of memories. You all will be in my prayers.

Tara Hannahoe & Family / Monday, October 13 2008 07:37 PM

I wish there was something we could say or do to ease the pain, but we know better then that. You have done everything parents could do in the past 4 1/2 years to give Ally everything and provide her the best life possible. You, your family and sweet Ashley are in our constant prayers and thoughts.

Eileen in Pgh / Monday, October 13 2008 07:28 PM

I’m so sorry for your loss, more than words can say. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary / Monday, October 13 2008 07:26 PM

We are all thinking of you at work today, Shane. You can never know when things in life will happen, but Ally knew you loved her. Our prayers are with you and your family, esp. little Ashley.

Jodee Red / Monday, October 13 2008 07:12 PM

Jill, Shane and Ashley Our thoughts and prayers are with you and with sweet angel Ally in heaven.

Becky Lee / Monday, October 13 2008 07:10 PM

I'm so sorry to hear about your precious little girl. I am so glad to have met and known her. I will pray for all of you, especially Ashley.

Heather / Monday, October 13 2008 07:01 PM

I am so sorry to hear about Ally today. Shane, you ARE a wonderful father and Ally knows you love her very much. I will be praying for you and your family.

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