Ally Heintz

October 2009

  • Wed, Oct 21, 2009 8:46 PM

    So sorry for the delay in updating but I wanted to thank everyone who came out to Ally's breakfast! Despite the weather it was a beautiful morning with a video of Ally playing, reminding us all what a special angel she was and how precious life really is.

    A special thank you to all of the volunteers at this event!!! Also thank you to the Boyertown Relay for Life team, the J-Walkers, who are usually busy cooking up a cure but this time they were just cooking up a fantastic breakfast! A huge thanks also goes out to Jim and Diane Davidheiser for organizing the majority of this event. Finally thanks to my Mom and Dad for all the hard work they did to help make sure this event was a success and for always being my biggest supporters!

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    Donna:  just stopped by to tell you I was thinking of you and praying for you.

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    Carol Yeager:  I was glad to hear that things went well and I also seen a clipping about it. THANKS AGAIN FOR KEEPING ME UP TO DATE.
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  • Thu, Oct 15, 2009 10:10 PM

    Just a quick update to remind everyone to come out Saturday morning to honor Ally's memory and support a great cause!

    Ally's Breakfast
    Saturday Oct. 17th 2009
    St. John's Lutheran Church
    Boyertown, PA
    Time: 7 to 11a.m.

    All-u-can eat!!!
    Take out is also available
    Adults $7
    Seniors and Under age 12 $5

    All Breakfast Proceeds benefit the Gift of Life Family House, Philadelphia.

    Also a quick note to anyone volunteering for the event, if you have not heard from me about the time you are scheduled to work please give me a call 484-942-8831. If you are donating bake goods for the bake sale table they can be dropped off at the church Friday night between 5 and 8 p.m. or brought to the breakfast Saturday morning.

    Thanks again to everyone for your help and support. Especially all the support this past week.

    Jill

    Comments:
    Debi:  Another great breakfast for Ally......hope it was a huge success!
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  • Tue, Oct 13, 2009 9:30 AM

    My Sweet Angel Ally...

    One year ago today, mommy, ashley and I experienced our most horrific day of sorrow. Losing you will never get easier. I know this to be true a year later, and am sure years from now it will be the same.

    Daddy took this day off, to be alone and just reflect on life, the past year of all I have gone through and a chance just to spend time remembering you. I thought about doing something special for someone else, but couldn't find the energy on a day like today.

    Ally, the images, the sounds, the smells of that day in the hospital are all so clear to me on this day. There's not a second of that day that can be erased from my memory. Ally, I remember pushing through all the doctors in your room that day as they tried to revive your life, and I remember getting right up to the ear of yours screaming for you not to give up! I remember all the rage and fight in my body wanting to make everything to just stop and for you to wake up!! Of course, in minutes, the room cleared and I was left alone with just mommy and you in the room. Your life here ended, and your new life began. Holding your lifeless body for hours that day, was something I never wanted to imagine, but I knew it was the last time I would be able to hold my baby girl.

    Ally, I'm reminded every day of the joy you brought to my life and am blessed to have been able to experience such love of a child. You taught daddy and so many others the many wonderful things that make up life. Daddy, Mommy, and Ashley will always remember your beautiful smile, and will do our best with the rest of our lives to create a legacy of your life to teach and inspire others.

    Ally, Daddy asks for only one thing on this day.... today and everyday, please help guide and give your sissy strength to grow up and be able to look back at the past as one of the best times of her life. Daddy worries so much about her. Please take care of her when I can't. Both you and Ashy will always be Daddy's little angels!

    GOD bless you Ally!

    Love you always, Daddy

    Comments:
    steph:  I think of ALLY everyday and more the past year. She is always there to help you, ash and mommy and guide you through the right paths. Sorry those horrible images are still so vivid in your mind. I cannot imagine the pain but just know many are here to support and pray for you you and all of your family.
    Sandy:  Always in my prayers and thoughts. Never a day goes by that we don't think of Ally and look at a picture we have her with that beautiful smile.
    Deanna & Brian:  Thinking of all of you as we always do and remembering Ally's smiles. We all wore red in her memory. Take care of each other. Love, the Johnsons
    Carol Yeager:  I just cant think that it has been a year ago that we all got another Angel in Heaven, I just know that whatever she is doing she will allways be remembered bt so many people .She will never be forgotten.GOD BLESS her and her family.
    Debra:  Darling ALLY lives in us all - FOREVER
    Cris:  You remind me to hold Maggie Mya and now Liam as close as I can. You and Jill, Ashley and Ally have taught so many of us that this too shall pass. No matter how good or bad this too shall pass. And knowing that we all need to be better people to everyone. We try to make a difference everyday. Thanks Ally for teaching us so many wonderful things about life.
    Mary and Maggie:  I am praying for you all the time. I know Ally watches over you and will help you get through.
    Anonymous:  I am thinking and praying of/for you on this day and everyday. I thought that this poem relates to what you may be feeling today.
    My Dear Sweet Baby Girl
    There have been 365 days that I woke up without you next to me, but 365 days that you woke up in Heaven;
    A year has gone by without me holding you, but God has been holding you for a year;
    I haven't been able to look at you in 52 weeks, but you watch over me and you have been my angel all that time;
    It has been 12 monthes since I've seen your smile, but 12 monthes since I've watched you cry in pain.
    I miss you so, I wish you didn't go, but now I see you are better now. I don't know how time works in Heaven, but I will be with you in a few human years, and we can be together for all of eternity happy and smiling constantly. I love you. I miss you. I'll see you soon.
    holly:  i'm sure it was not an easy day,but i think what you did is good to do sometimes.just be alone.we all really miss ally,she was so darn special.
    Debi:  Ally will never be forgotten Shane! On this her anniversary day of her new life in heaven or any day. She is in the hearts and souls of so many. The lessons she taught so many of us. The smiles she gave, big enough to carry us thru the toughest of life's hard times. When you think you can't take or handle anymore, think of Ally and all she endured and you feel foolish and so thankful to have known her and her family. What a wonderful daughter you had and now an angel to us all.
    Some people only dream of angels......we actually held one in our arms!! :) Remember her today and everyday.....and try to smile when you do as she is smiling down on you. Thank you for all the memories Ally........God bless you!
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  • Thu, Oct 1, 2009 9:14 PM

    Hi baby girl, it's been awhile since I have written to you. God, I miss you. Ash and I were talking the other day about what you do all day in Heaven to keep busy. (Although I think the other day you were busy riding in the car with us singing to one of your favorite songs playing on the radio!) Most of the time though I am sure you are just busy watching over all of us.

    Today was October 1st, part of me was hoping this month would never come. So many reminders of what life was like a year ago, so many memories. I keep thinking of how happy you were everyday to go to school and how much fun you had at Ash's birthday last October. I will always be in disbelief of how much life can change in a moment.

    If I could I would go back to last year and know to savor every laugh, every touch, every smile...every moment of life with you. But then I didn't design the way life and death work. It's just hard being without you and sometimes life doesn't seem all that fair. I guess you probably knew that better than anyone and yet it never kept you from smiling!

    I had a little patient today that really made me think of you. She had wispy curly hair just like yours...maybe a little darker. She kept doing this bulldog smile and pushing her lower jaw forward just like I have so many pictures of you doing. She was sweet like you too.

    Ash seems to be having a harder time right now too with missing you. I know she thinks of her birthday and losing you as something that happened at the same time. She told me the other night that she doesn't understand why some brothers and sisters (or siblings) don't get along, that if she had a brother or sister she would never be mad at them or want them to go away because at least she would have a brother or sister. What am I supposed to say to her? I will always feel like I have let her down by not being able to keep you safe. I just tell her that I miss you too and that I know how much she hurts.

    Oh well baby, like I said life isn't fair and although tomorrow we will still wake up missing you just as much as today, maybe it will be a good day. Ash has parent visitation day tomorrow at school. Siblings aren't allowed but I bet they will make an exception for you!

    I love you Ally,
    Mommy

    Comments:
    MJ/Angel_Wings:  Good Morning Precious ^^Ally^^ I am thinking about you today and remembering how special and blessed you are. I am praying for your family and friends today on this special day. We all love you and miss you precious little one. MJ/Angel_Wings
    Kristene:  We are keeping you all in our prayers this month,Jill.Ava asks about Ashley all the time and would love to see her. Ava knows the heartbreak Ashley must feel when she starts fighting with her sister,Paige. I remind them that they are lucky to have eachother no matter what. No one knows what tomorrow may bring. May you find some peace and comfort in the loving messages this month.
    Carol Yeager:  I am sorry that I am using this way to send you a message but I just read an article in the obituaries that a person that I knew is related to you in some way His last name was Heimbach and I went to school with his son and Daughter, Gee its a small world.I didnt know that you were related to the Heimbacks,well I just thought I would let you know,I hope this day finds you and Ashley in good health and may all your days be filles with sunshine and Laughter,'Remember that there is allways someone looking down and watching over you.Have a great weekend.Your sincere friend allways,Carol(Sissypop52)@aol.com
    SMILNMOM@DEJAZZD.COM:  YOU ARE IN OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS DAILY.
    I KNOW ALLY'S BIRTHDAY IS THIS COMING WEEKEND. OUR PRAYERS AND LOVE AND CONCERN ARE WITH ALL OF YOU. WE MISS ALLY TOO!
    GOD BLESS
    LOVE
    DAYLE AND DAVE
    Brett:  Your postings help me remember to cherish each and every day with my girls. Thank you.
    Amy Pavlik:  It has to be so hard finding words to explain things to Ashley. Just knowing your family's story helps put a perspective on life and the time that we share with our children. It has certainly opened my eyes!
    steph:  just wanted to let you know that we think of you and pray for you and your family everyday!
    Lynne:  Wishing we could turn back the hands of time...I miss that smile of Ally's, and her saying - YIN, YIN!! I can still hear her sweet voice. I love you guys. Happy early birthday to Ashley!
    Carol Yeager:  I am so sorry for your loss and I hope as each day goes by that it gets better and especially for Ash too,I cant say that I know how it feels but I hope you know that we are all praying for the family.As allways you are in our hearts and memories.
    Cris:  I wish I could explain this to Matthew. He coaches WAY too much baseball and spends too much time in the basement and so little time with Maggie and Mya. Thanks for getting the word out to us...to love every minute that we can.
    HeatherHO:  Love you Jill :)
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